Even if you are naturally shy, these three tricks will help you to quickly build a new soc

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Even if you are naturally shy, these three tricks will help you to quickly build a new social circle in any new city.
1. Take pictures
One of the great things about taking pictures at an event or party is that it gives you an excuse to get in touch with the person later. Everybody loves seeing pictures of themselves, and it’s very easy after taking a picture to say “If you’d like I can email it to you”. This can be the seed that leads to new connections. The next time you hear about a fun event email your new contacts to let them know about it.
2. Eat alone in public
You might feel self-conscious eating by yourself but it has an important benefit: you are much easier to approach when you are alone. People may be afraid of interrupting you or being rude if you are in a conversation with someone else. Bring a book or newspaper to read (this will make you feel less self-conscious). Plus, having an interesting book with you will give others an excuse to start a conversation if they’ve read it.
3. Join a class, sports team, or club
Yoga, salsa dancing, volleyball, Toastmasters (a public speaking club), a class for work, etc. Take up a new hobby or continue an old one!
These are all great places to meet new people, primarily because you will be forced to see the same people over and over again in the class. You will automatically make friends with them if you have a mon interest and are forced to see each other again.
Tips:
* In the beginning, never turn down an invitation from someone, even if it’s something you wouldn’t normally do.
* Email your new friends with fun things to do instead of always asking what their plans are. If they have a better plan you can drop yours and join them. This will help establish you as someone who is contributing value instead of just taking it (people want this in a friend).
* Don’t let little things in life upset you or be a negative person. People don’t want to be around someone like that!
【小题1】     can give you an excuse to start new connections.A.Taking pictures of othersB.Eating by yourself in publicC.Reading interesting booksD.Joining group activities【小题2】When having meals, you’d better      if you want to make new friends.A.sit on your own in public places B.start a conversation with those who have friends aside C.invite others to your apartment to eat togetherD.approach others to show conscious friendliness【小题3】According to the text, which of the following is NOT mentioned as an advantage of joining a   class?A.It helps you find out your interest and take up a new hobby.B.It helps you find out people who share a mon interest with you.C.It offers an opportunity to meet the same people repeatedly.D.It is a good way to meet new people and make friends in a new city.【小题4】 Which of the following pieces of advice is a tip from the text?A.Try to be outgoing and talkative instead of being shy.B.Never turn down an invitation from your friends.C.Offer suggestions on how to spend time together.D.Don’t give a negative response to any request.【小题5】By writing the text, the author intends to tell us     .A.why you should change when you move to a new cityB.why you should make new friends in a new cityC.how you can make new friends in a new cityD.how you can keep in touch with strangersA 

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(答案→)A 
解析:
【小题1】细节题:从第二段的句子:One of the great things about taking pictures at an event or party is that it gives you an excuse to get in touch with the person later. 可知帮别人拍照可以为以后和别人联系找到借口。选A
【小题1】细节题:从第三段的句子:you are much easier to approach when you are alone.可知一个人吃饭可以让你交到新朋友。选A
【小题1】排除题:第三部分的内容提到BCD的内容,没有提到A的内容。选A。
【小题1】第二个tip里面提到:Email your new friends with fun things to do instead of always asking what their plans are.可知是让读者提出怎样一起度过的建议。选C
【小题1】主旨题:从第一段的主题句:Even if you are naturally shy, these three tricks will help you to quickly build a new social circle in any new city.可知这篇文章是要教会读者怎么在新城市交到新朋友。选 C
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