People who show confidence really seem to have it made. They seize more rewarding careers, keep good relationships, and just seem to do everything with more styles than the rest of us.
So what is the secret? There isn’t one. Self-confidence is a skill and habit that anyone can learn to develop. And although people who are raised in an encouraging environment with confident role models have a hard start in self-confidence development, we all can learn to bee more confident at any age.
Try these simple tips for practising and increasing your self-confidence levels:
Dare to fail. Anybody who’s out there bravely performing is going to fail repeatedly. If you are not failing, you are not trying. So don’t take failure too hard or too personally. Just learn to deal with it and use its lessons to keep improving.
When in doubt, pretend you know what you are doing. Because, if you are confident of your abilities, by the time you have done it, you will be experienced.
Dress for success. You don’t have to be beautiful to be confident. Make the most of your own unique physical characters and weaken your disadvantages.
Listen to yourself. You are the only person who knows what’s right for you. Don’t put others’ opinions above your own inner voice.
Build a confident vocabulary. Stop putting yourself down and give up continually blaming your tiny weaknesses. Learn to show up your strong points and the world will learn to see and celebrate them with you.
Pass on the praise. Praise others for their virtues and strengths. This practice will not decrease your confidence, but help increase it.
【小题1】The passage is written mainly .A．to explain the definition of self-confidenceB．to explain the secret of self-confidenceC．to tell people how important self-confidence isD．to tell people how to build self-confidence【小题2】The main idea of the sixth paragraph is .A．to be confident means to have no disadvantagesB．taking full advantage of your physical characters will help you be confidentC．your unique characters will help you be confident and be successfulD．to be confident means to be beautiful【小题3】All the following are tips to increase your self-confidence level EXCEPT .A．not to be afraid of failureB．dress yourself properlyC．pretend to know everything D．make your advantages more obvious【小题4】 will weaken your self-confidence.A．Praising others for their strong pointsB．Always following others’ advice to do thingsC．Giving up blaming your weaknessesD．Believing in yourselfD
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(答案→)D
解析：自信的人往往在事业上更上一层楼，有着良好的人际关系，处理事情的方式也多种多样。自信心是一种技能和习惯。自信的培养没有年龄限制，任何年龄段的人都能够变得更加自信。
【小题1】根据第二段“o what is the secret? There isn’t one. Self-confidence is a skill and habit that anyone can learn to develop.”和第三段“Try these simple tips for practising and increasing your self-confidence levels”可知，文章讲的是如何增强自信心，故选D。
【小题2】根据“Make the most of your own unique physical characters and weaken your disadvantages.”可知，成分利用你自身的性格特点也能够帮助你增加自信心，故选C。
【小题3】根据第五段“When in doubt, pretend you know what you are doing. Because, if you are confident of your abilities, by the time you have done it, you will be experienced.”可知，当有疑问时，要假装自己知道该怎样做，相信自己的能力能够增加你的经验，C项“假装知道一切”是对本段的曲解，故选C。
【小题4】根据“Listen to yourself. You are the only person who knows what’s right for you. Don’t put others’ opinions above your own inner voice.”可知，要听从自己内心的声音，不能一味地听他人的建议。故选B。