When I was a young student, a Chinese teacher told us, “If you make one close friend in school, you will be most fortunate. A true friend is someone who stays with you for life.” 36 tells us that he was right. Good friendship is just not easily 37 . It is possible that we simply do not stay in one place long enough for 38 friendship to 39 .
However, there can be 40 disagreement on the need for each of us to think carefully about the kind of friendship we want. To most of us, friendships are considered very important, but we need to have clear in our 41 the kinds of friendship we want. Are they to be close or 42 at arm’s length? Do we want to 43 ourselves or do we want to walk on the surface? For some people, many friendships on the surface are 44 enough—and that’s all right. But at some point we need to 45 that our expectations are the same as our friends’ expectations. The sharing of 46 experience 47 our tears as well as our dark dreams is the surest way to deepen friendships. But it 48 be undertaken（进行）slowly and carried on only if there are 49 of interest and action in return.
What are some of the 50 of friendship? The greatest is the attraction to expect too much too soon. Deep relationships 51 time. Another “major difficulty” is the selfishness to think one “possesses” the other, including his time and attention. Similarly, friendships 52 actions in return. In 53 words, you must give as much as you take.
Finally there is a question of taking care of. Unless you spend 54 time together, talking on the phone, writing letters, doing things together, friendships will die 55 .
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(答案→)B
解析：文章讲述了友谊的形成需要时间和精力以及相关情况。
【小题1】B 名词辨析。A知识；B经验；C父母；D老师。这里是指根据经验，这样的说法正确。
【小题2】D 动词相比。Form good friendship形成良好的友谊。这里是指良好的友谊很难形成。
【小题3】A 形容词辨析。这里是指也许我们不能再一个地方足够的时间来形成真正的友谊。
【小题4】B 动词辨析。Develop the true friendship形成真正的友谊。
【小题5】A 词义辨析。这里是指没有什么分歧，大家都有相同的期待。
【小题6】C 固定词组。Have sth in mind记得某事；
【小题7】B 固定词组。Keep at arm’s length这里是指疏远，与close相反。
【小题8】A 动词辨析。这里是指与别人分享。
【小题9】C 副词辨析。Quite enough足够了。
【小题10】A 短语辨析。A确保；B记得；C期待；D结账离开。这里是指你要确保你的期望值与朋友的期望值一致。
【小题11】B 形容词辨析。这里是指与别人分享个人经历包括个人的痛苦等。
【小题12】C 介词辨析。Including包括…
【小题13】D 情态动词辨析。这里是指一定要慢慢地执行与进行。
【小题14】C 名词辨析。这里是指作为回报的迹象和征兆。
【小题15】A 名词辨析。根据本段内容可知是指在友谊方面所遇见的困难。
【小题16】C 动词辨析。Take time指花费时间。这里是指友谊要花费时间。
【小题17】A 动词辨析。解析同上。
【小题18】A 固定词组。In other words换句话说。
【小题19】B 形容词辨析。如果你没有花费合理的时间，友谊就会消逝。
【小题20】D 固定词组。Die away消逝。