Friendships can be difficult — because often people aren't as honest and open as they should be. Sometimes, people finally get hurt.
Most problems with friendships e up because people are just too selfish to care about the things that their friends need. They care about their own needs much more, which makes it hard for friendships to work. However, being selfish is part of human nature. A person is put together in order to take care of themselves and their own needs, not necessarily those needs of other people. Even though being selfish is something that all humans are born with, it is something that everyone should be against.
The best thing to remember when you are a friend to anyone is that you need to treat your friends the same way that you'd like to be treated(对待). This is wonderful advice for a friendship, because it is really the only way to make sure that you are giving your friends everything you would want to be given in a friendship. Whenever you have a question about how you should treat a friend, it is easy to find an answer simply by asking yourself what you would like your friend to do for you, if he or she was in your shoes.
Even if you're always thinking about how you'd like to be treated, and your friends are too, there are problems that e up from time to time in each friendship, and it is important to understand how to deal with these problems so that you can build stronger and healthier friendships. Problems like friends getting boyfriends or girlfriends and not spending enough time with their friends, or even friends finding new friends and leaving old friends behind are problems that will probably e up with one or more of your friendships. It is important to know how to deal with these friend problems so that you can keep your friends and make new ones. No one wants to have a broken friendship.
【小题1】This passage mainly talks about .A．the importance of friendshipB．the advantages(益处) of friendshipC．the problems of friendshipD．the disadvantages(劣势) of friendship【小题2】According to the writer, problems with friendship may appear when .A．one is honest B．one is selfishC．one is openD．one is kind【小题3】According to the passage, the first and most important thing to be other people's friend is .A．to treat your friend as you like to beB．to give your friends whatever you haveC．not to hurt your friends' feelingsD．not to think of your own need any more【小题4】What's the purpose of understanding how to deal with friendship problems?A．To have a fortable life.B．To build stronger and healthier friendships.C．To be treated the way you want.D．To get a boyfriend or girlfriend more quickly.C
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(答案→)C
解析：友谊有时候是很难顺利进行下去的，因为通常人们并不是很坦诚，人们有时会隐藏事实，因此人们最终也会受到伤害。其实这些大多数与友谊有关的问题，都是因为人太自私而不去关心别人的需求造成的，在本文中作者就此情况进行了分析并且给出了建议．
【小题1】C主旨大意题．文章开头提出Friendships can be difficult.然后在下文提出友谊难以维系的原因，和一些朋友间会出现的具体问题，以及如何去看待这些问题等，所以文章中心是讨论友谊中所碰到的一些问题，而C选项内容恰好能概括中心，故选C．
【小题2】B细节理解题．根据文章第二段Most problems with friendships e up because people are just too selfish to care about the things that their friends need.可知友谊出现问题的原因是由于人们太自私而不能关注到朋友们的需要，所以判断B选项正确．
【小题3】A细节理解题．由文章第三段The best thing to remember when you are a friend to anyone is that you need to treat your friends the same way that you'd like to be treated．可知一个人要按照自己希望被对待的方式去对待朋友，换句话说你希望别人怎么对待你，那么你就怎样去对待别人，故A为正确选项．
【小题4】B根据文章末段It is important to know how to deal with these friend problems so that you can keep your friends and make new ones可知了解如何处理朋友间的问题为的是能够维持和别人的友谊，结成牢固的友谊．故B为正确选项．