A high school history teacher once told me, If you make one close friend in school, you will be the most fortunate. A true friend is someone who stays with you for life._36 teaches that he was right. Good friendship is just not easily_37 .
It is possible that we simply do not stay in one place long enough for a _38_ friendship to 39 . However, there can be 40 disagreement on the need for each of us to think carefully about the kind of friendship we want.
To most of us, friendships are considered very important, but we need to be clear in our 41_ the kinds of friendship we want. Are they to be close or _42 at arm's length? Do we want to 43 ourselves or do we want to walk on the surface? For some people , many friendships on the surface are 44_ enough-- and that's all right. But on some points, we need to 45 that our expectations are the same as our friends' expectations. The sharing 46 experience 47 our tears as well as our dark dreams is the surest way to deepen friendships. But it 48 be undertaken slowly and carried on only if there are 49 of interest and action in return.
What are some of the _50 of friendship? The greatest is the attraction to expect too much time or too soon. Deep relationships 51 time. Another major difficulty is the selfishness to think one possesses the other, including his time and attention. Similarly, friendships 52 actions in return . In 53 words, you must give as much as you take. Finally there is a question of taking care of . Unless you spend 54 time together , talking on the phone, writing letters, doing things together, friendships will die 55 .
【小题1】A．ExperienceB．PracticeC．KnowledgeD．Success【小题2】A．understoodB．realizedC．formedD．produced【小题3】A．monB．trueC．shortD．whole【小题4】A．design B．intendC．developD．appear【小题5】A．noneB．noC．anyD．some【小题6】A．heartsB．thoughtsC．mindsD．actions【小题7】A．remainedB．keptC．leftD．stayed【小题8】A．ownB．oweC．shareD．spare【小题9】A．thatB．veryC．notD．quite【小题10】A．make sureB．rememberC．expectD．check out【小题11】A．socialB．personalC．goodD．ordinary【小题12】A．includingB．to includeC．includesD．included【小题13】A．mustB．needC．will D．can【小题14】A．marks B．sights C．scenes D．signs【小题15】A．differencesB．difficultiesC．advantagesD．types【小题16】A．cost B．spend C．ask D．take【小题17】A．depend B．request C．require D．suggest【小题18】A．some B．many C．different D．other【小题19】A．less B．fortable C．reasonableD．a lot【小题20】A．for B．away C．out D．fromA
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解析：文章讲述的是究竟该如何获得友谊！
【小题1】名词辨析，A经验；B练习；C知识；D成功。根据句意可知经验故事我们他是对的。真正的友谊是很难获得的。
【小题2】动词辨析。A理解；B认识，实现；C形成；D生产；解析同上。
【小题3】形容词辨析。我们在一个地方待的时间不够长以形成真正的友谊这样的事情是可能的。
【小题4】动词辨析。A设计；B想要；C发展形成；D出现。解析同上。
【小题5】用法辨析。None后面不直接接名词。根据句意可知是不会有一致的意见。
【小题6】名词辨析。根据句意可知是在我们的心里我们需要知道自己需要什么样的友谊。
【小题7】固定用法。Keep…at arm’s length保持距离 ; 与某人保持距离；句意可知：他们是要很亲密还是保持一定的距离？是要相互分享一切还是不要太深入？
【小题8】动词辨析。A拥有；B欠；C分享；D抽出，匀出；解析同上。
【小题9】副词辨析。根据句意可知是指对有些人来说，很多浮于表面的友谊足够了。Quite enough足够了。Quite表示程度。
【小题10】动词辨析。A确保；B记住；C期待；D结账；由句意可知：我们要确保我们的期望和朋友的期望相一致。
【小题11】形容词辨析。A社会的；B个人的；C好的；D普通的；句意：共同的个人经历包括快乐与痛苦都是加深我们友谊的最好的方法。
【小题12】解析同上。Including 包含，包括；
【小题13】情态动词辨析。由句意可知：只要有回报的迹象，这样的事情一定要被慢慢地进行，
【小题14】名词辨析。解析同上。
【小题15】上下文串联。本段讲述的是发展友谊的困难。
【小题16】动词辨析。cost使付出(时间、劳力、代价等),使丧失；spend主语通常是人；take需要;花费;占用;由句意可知：深入的友谊需要花费时间。
【小题17】动词辨析。根据上下文可知友谊也需要时间。
【小题18】固定词组。In other words换句话说。
【小题19】形容词辨析。根据句意：如果我们在一起聊天做事情花费的时间不合理（太多太少都不行），我们的友谊就会逐渐消失。
【小题20】副词辨析。解析同上。Die away 逐渐消失.