Westerners think that the education ways in many Chinese families are hard to understand.

Westerners think that the education ways in many Chinese families are hard to understand. Here are some examples.
Many children in China are looked after by their grandfathers and grandmothers because their parents are busy. But children need to stay and municate with their parents.
Parents pay no attention to the rights (权利) of children. Parents should knock at the door before they go into the room of their children. (1)They shouldn’t move their children’s things before they agree. Parents should municate with children and respect (尊重) the rights and decisions of them. Children who are not respected also do not know how to respect others.
(2) Parents often      their children      others. Most Chinese parents want their children to be successful, because it can save the parents’ face. Parents often say “You see somebody else is studying hard, what good grades they have, and what prizes they get”. This is the worst thing. It will only bring the child much harm and pain.
Many children are made to do what their parents expect, though they do not like it. For example, parents ask their children to learn to play the piano or go abroad. It should be decided by children themselves.
The more hard-working, the better. Many parents think school performance is everything. In fact, the integrated（综合）ability is so important that it will affect children all their lives.
【小题1】将（1）句译成中文。
【小题2】在（2）句的空白处分别填入一个适当的词使句意完整、上下文通顺。
【小题3】回答问题：Why are many children looked after by their grandparents in China?
【小题4】在文中找出与Children themselves should make a decision about it.意思相近的句子，并将它写在答题卡上。
【小题5】在文中找出最能表达该短文主题的句子，并将它写在答题卡上。在孩子们同意之前，他们不应该动他们的东西。/在得到他们同意之前，他们不应该动孩子们的东西。