Society is a web of relationships, requiring all parties(群体) to work together to create something good. What makes society work best are effective(有效的) relationships that are based on mutual(相互的) understanding. If you understand what people want and why they want it, you can usually find a way to make progress together.
High-quality relationships make people happy. Some people living in the poorest munities have almost nothing but turn out to be the happiest because they share a life, together. If effective relationships are working, happiness is always possible.
Here are some simple tips for building effective relationships.
Listen to and try to understand others' positions and feelings. Listening in itself can lead to understanding, and if you understand someone else fully, then you know how to work better with him or her.
Openly express your needs and feeling. Sometimes we expect people particularly those close to us at home or work to understand what we want and to give us what we need intuitively (凭直 觉地). However, people are so plicated and so different that even when they have lived together for 60 years, they can still surprise each other. So we need to say what we need and to express how we feel.
In order to make our relationships more effective, we should treat ourselves and other people with respect. Respect is one of the most important elements of any good relationship.
Finally, learn to face differences correctly. Learning this takes time and can be unfortable. However, if we can try to remove differences in an effective way, we are more likely to build exciting and satisfying relationships with others.
By doing these things you may discover that the happiness you long for is much closer than you thought.
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Building Effective Relationships
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(答案→)Building Effective Relationships
解析：本文叙述了社会是一个关系网，需要各种群体在一起协作才能创造一个美好的世界。短文给出了如何建立有效的关系。一是通过听来理解他人的立场和心情。二是公开表达你的需要和感受。三是要尊敬自己和他人。四是要学会正确地面对不同。
【小题1】根据Here are some simple tips for building effective relationships.可知短文主要叙述的是建立有效关系的方法，故用Building Effective Relationships。
【小题2】根据下面的make这样的句子可知这个栏里叙述的是理由，故用Reasons。
【小题3】根据下面的7-10个小题可以看出这里叙述的是一些建议，故用Tips/ways/suggestions。
【小题4】根据What makes society work best are effective(有效的) relationships that are based on mutual(相互的) understanding.使社会更加协调必须有基于相互理解的有效的关系，故用Work best。
【小题5】根据If you understand what people want and why they want it, you can usually find a way to make progress together. 要找到一个方法使人们共同进步，故用make progress together。
【小题6】根据but turn out to be the happiest because they share a life, together.使人们高兴因为他们能够共同分享生活，故用sharing a life。
【小题7】根据Listen to and try to understand others' positions and feelings. Listening in itself can lead to understanding理解他人的立场和心情，需要去倾听，故用 listening。
【小题8】根据Openly express your needs and feeling.公开表达你的需要和感受，故用openly。
【小题9】根据we should treat ourselves and other people with respect. 为了使关系更加有效，我们应该对待自己和他人要尊敬，故用with respect。
【小题10】根据learn to face differences correctly.要学会正确地面对不同，故用differences。