Some people make you feel fortable when they are around. You spend an hour with them and feel as if you have known them half your life. These people have something in mon. And once we know what it is, we can try to do it ourselves.
How is it done? Here are several skills that good talkers have. If you follow the skills, they’ll help you put people at their ease, and make friends with them quickly.
First of all, good talkers ask questions. Almost anyone, no matter how shy he is, will answer a question. One well-known businesswoman says, “At business lunches, I always ask people what they did that morning. It’s a mon question, but it will get things going.” From there you can move on to other matters--sometimes to really personal questions. And how he answers will let you know how far you can go.
In addition, once good talkers have asked questions, they listen to the answers. This point seems clear, but it isn’t. Your questions should have a point and help to tell what sort of person you are talking to. And to find out, you really have to listen carefully and attentively.
Real listening at least means some things. First it means not to change the subject of conversation. If someone sticks to one topic, you can take it as a fact that he’s really interested in it. Real listening also means not just listening to words, but to tones of voice. If the voice sounds dull, then, it’s time for you to change the subject.
Last but not least, good talkers know well how to deal with the occasion of parting. If you’re saying good-bye, you may give him a firm handshake and say, “I’ve really enjoyed meeting you.” If you want to see that person again, don’t keep it a secret. Let people know what you feel, and they may walk away feeling as if they’ve known you half their life.
【小题1】 Which of the following is NOT the reason why good talkers ask questions?A．To get the conversation going smoothly.B．To continue the conversation with other matters. C．To make more new friends.D．To know how far the conversation can go.【小题2】 How many skills does the author give us to be good talkers?A．Three.B．Four.C．Five.D．Six.【小题3】 In general, good talkers are persons who .A．can keep the conversation interestingB．never talk too much or too littleC．always keep the conversation a secretD．can change the topic of the conversation properly【小题4】 If you are willing to meet someone again, .A．you’d better let him know itB．you’d better shake his hand firmlyC．you’d better keep it a secretD．you’d better understand him furtherC
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(答案→)C
解析：文章主要教我们一些语言的技能。介绍了三种做好的谈话者的方式。
【小题1】推理题。从From there you can move on to other matters—sometimes to really personal questions可知问题目可以使发言天然进行下去，故选C。
【小题2】细节题。从文章三，四，六段介绍了三种做好的谈话者的方式。可知选A正确。
【小题3】细节题。从Real listening also means not just listening to words, but to tones of voice. If the voice sounds dull, then, it’s time for you to change the subject可知谜底D正确。
【小题4】细节题。从If you want to see that person again, don’t keep it a secret可知谜底A正确。