Some couples spend every waking minute together. Others fill their hours with personal hob

Some couples spend every waking minute together. Others fill their hours with personal hobbies,outside interests and even part-time jobs, just to keep their distance from each other! There should be private time and couple time, suggests Dr. Stephen Treat at Jefferson Medical College in Philadelphia.You don't want your latter years to turn into a process where two people unite as one. If you hold too tightly to your partner, it's going to cause resentment and anger. If you're pletely separate, you'll both be lonely and disconnected. You need balance. So you have to talk about how you'll achieve that.
The right balance? It's different for every couple. Having a conversation about time can be difficult,but it's important for both partners to process those feelings out loud, Dr. Treat says. You should not be accusing and act as a judge—ask the difficult questions, but do it in a loving way. You could say something like, 'How are we going to be as individuals and how are we going to be as a couple?'
Barbara and Chris Christensen have achieved the balance that works for them. In addition to daily routines that keep them close—including about 10 minutes for a daily check-in and about a half hour of relaxation time—they each maintain separate interests and friendships.
We have found that we need time apart, Barbara says. I have a group of women friends that I have known for the last 30 years. We have dinner out once a month. We women also have parties and weekend or weeklong vacations as a group at a beach or somewhere. Chris, a former fighter pilot, has many aviation-oriented(航空的) groups and friends and also a poker-playing group of our friends. I may be with him during the poker night, but I don't play, and the wives usually watch a chick flick' DVD or something while the poker group has an evening of fun. We have found it important to have separate time as well as together time.
【小题1】The author writes the passage to     .A．offer some suggestions on how to spend the time after retirementB．advise couples to develop their separate hobbiesC．warn couples not to be accusing each otherD．give people some advice on how to entertain themselves after retirement【小题2】 Dr. Stephen suggests that     after retirement.A．couples stay together all the timeB．couples express their feelings in a loving wayC．couples be separateD．wives make many friends【小题3】It can be inferred that    .A．many couples are faced with problems after retirementB．America has a large population of retired peopleC．most people join various social groups after retirementD．playing poker is a popular activity among retired people【小题4】Barbara and her friends do the following EXCEPT    .A．having dinner regularlyB．holding partiesC．having weekly vacations at the beachD．having fun playing poker【小题5】The second paragraph is mainly intended to    .A．warn the husband not to act as a judgeB．suggest couples have discussions about difficultiesC．suggest how to keep the correct balanceD．require couples to be considerateA