Criticism can be divided into two types. 【小题1】 This is the type of criticism that can be the most hurtful. Parents might express their disapproval of your choice in career, friends or lifestyle. People may criticize how you dress or the way you act. It can be terribly unpleasant to tolerate it.
The second type of criticism involves pointing out your weaknesses and mistakes. No one is perfect, yet many imperfect people seem to find it extremely easy to “let us know” when we mess up. 【小题2】 And the fact that they are telling us what we already know makes it much more annoying.
When people express their disapproval of some area of your life you first need to consider how you feel about it. You need to be secure in who you are and the decisions that you make.【小题3】
Remember that there is a difference between being firm in your choices and being stubborn. Don’t be stubborn. Be mature enough to truly hear what they are saying, even if you don’t agree with it at first. 【小题4】 If not, just let it go and trust that they meant well, but what they were saying is not for you. Don’t be mad at them.
【小题5】 Improving yourself works best if you can see yourself from different angles. Other people have different views on what you are doing and can help you. If you are one of those people who just want to learn the hard way, try listening to some advice for a change. It might do you some good.A．In many cases, we already know a lot of what people are saying to us.B．You may e to realize that they have a good view of things and are right.C．There is no need for you to care about others’ criticism.D．The first type is when someone expresses their disapproval.E.Bear in mind that you should never criticize others.
F.If your decisions are solid and you firmly believe in them, you won’t allow anyone to change your mind.
G.If someone is pointing out your mistakes, use it to your advantage.D
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(答案→)D
解析：本文对批评的两种类型进行了分析，一种是伤人的，一种是委婉的，虽然两者是不同的，但你要相信对方是好意，把对方的批评换个角度考虑，就能对你有益。
【小题1】D 根据前句Criticism can be divided into two types批评可以分成两种类型。以及第二段第一句话The second type of criticism involves pointing out your weaknesses and mistakes。所以此空当然是介绍第一种类型，所以D正确。
【小题2】A 根据前句yet many imperfect people seem to find it extremely easy to “let us know” when we mess up.以及空后And the fact that they are telling us what we already know makes it much more annoying.事实是他们告诉我们的是我们已经知道的内容，这更让人烦，所以A正确。
【小题3】F 根据前句You need to be secure in who you are and the decisions that you make.句中的关键连接词decisions,所以F正确。
【小题4】B 根据前句Be mature enough to truly hear what they are saying, even if you don’t agree with it at first,即使起初你不同意他们的话，下句应该为：你会慢慢意识到…所以B正确。
【小题5】G 此句为如果有人指出了你的错误，你把它看成是好事，后句Improving yourself works best if you can see yourself from different angles如果你从不同角度看自己你就可以最佳的提高自我，所以G正确。