Most recently, it’s very mon in students who need a parent present for job interviews.
Naturally, it’s easy to blame the students in these situations, but the bigger problem is us. We—as parents—are so eager to protect our kids that we fail to realize that this in itself is harming them. As the mother of two young sons, I have to remind myself all the time that the biggest responsibility I have as a parent is to help them develop the skills needed to live in, to live without me. So, I’ll let them fail.
I’ll let them fail because as long as they are safe and warm inside their fort zones, they will never grow. And failure—along with loss, heartbreak, disappointment, etc.—will be part of growth for them. Call me the anti-tiger mom, but leaving them alone is my way of helping them bee equipped to fit in this world as we know it today. From terrorism (恐怖主义) and seemingly endless natural disasters, to our national debt and beyond, if we expect the next generation to stand up to the very real problems of our time, we need to stop feeding them and start teaching them how to fish.
My children are faced with hard situations in their own life almost each day, but they try to negotiate (协商) everything now. It’s a small price to help them learn a skill they’ll use for the rest of their lives, including when I don’t e with them on job interviews.
【小题1】Why do parents go along with their kids on job interviews?A．Because they want to protect their kids from difficulties.B．Because they think they can protect them from being hurt.C．Because their kids are too shy to attend interviews.D．Because their kids strongly request them to do so.【小题2】According to the author, what is helpful to kids’ development?A．Protecting them.B．Keeping them safe.C．Leaving them alone.D．Blaming them.【小题3】The author believes experiencing failure in life can make kids .A．bee healthier than other kids B．grow in this challenging worldC．develop all social skillsD．escape from natural disasters【小题4】If the writer’s boy goes to a job interview, she probably will .A．go with him to protect her kid from difficultyB．stay home but give him directions over telephone C．wait outside and talk with other parentsD．let him go to the interview by himself【小题5】Which of the following might be the best title of the text?A．Never help your kidsB．Let your kids failC．Go to the interview with your kidsD．Live without parentsA
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(答案→)A
解析：本文讲述的是要让自己的孩子经历挫折，而不是帮助孩子处理一切困难。因为挫折可以让他们长大。让他们了解世界的艰难，让孩子真正成长。
【小题1】A 细节题。根据文章2,3行We—as parents—are so eager to protect our kids that we fail to realize that this in itself is harming them.可知问题在我们父母亲身上，我们总是保护我们的孩子。让他们是去了自己发展的机会。故A正确。
【小题2】C 细节题。根据文章第三段第三行leaving them alone is my way of helping them bee equipped to fit in this world as we know it today.可知让孩子独处是一种帮助孩子适应我们这个世界的很好的方法。故C正确。
【小题3】.B 推理题。根据文章第三段最后2行if we expect the next generation to stand up to the very real problems of our time, we need to stop feeding them and start teaching them how to fish.可知我们要想让我们的孩子在这个世界上立足，就要让他们自己体验失败，只有这样才能再这个世界里成长。故B正确。
【小题4】D 推理题。根据文章最后一段1,2行My children are faced with hard situations in their own life almost each day, but they try to negotiate (协商) everything now. I可知我们要和孩子尽可能多地协商，通过协商来帮助自己的孩子。推断出作者在孩子面试的时候，也会合孩子进行协商，给出自己的建议。故D正确。
【小题5】B 主旨大意题。本文讲述的是要让自己的孩子经历挫折，而不是帮助孩子处理一切困难。因为挫折可以让他们长大。让他们了解世界的艰难，让孩子真正成长。故B正确。