One effective way of destroying happiness is to look at something and focus on even the sm

One effective way of destroying happiness is to look at something and focus on even the smallest fault. It's like looking at the tiled(铺瓦的) ceiling and concentrating on the space where one tile is    【小题1】    .
Once I heard a bald(秃头的) man said. “Whenever I enter a room,    【小题2】    I see is hair. Once you've     【小题3】    what your missing tile is, explore whether getting it will     【小题4】     make you happy. Then do one of the three things: get it, replace it with a different    【小题5】    , or forget about it and    【小题6】    the tiles in your life that are not missing.
We all know people who have had a relatively    【小题7】    life, yet are often unhappy while people who have suffered a great deal but    【小题8】    remain happy.
The first    【小题9】    is gratitude. All happy people are    【小题10】    . Ungrateful people cannot be happy. We tend to think that being unhappy leads people to    【小题11】    , but it's truer to say that plaining leads to people being unhappy.
The second secret, is    【小题12】    that happiness is a byproduct(副产品) of something else. The most obvious    【小题13】    are those pursuits(追求) that give our lives purpose—anything    【小题14】 studying insects to playing baseball. The more passions we have, the more happiness we are    【小题15】 to experience.
Finally, the belief that something permanent goes beyond us and that our    【小题16】    has some larger meaning can help us to feel happier. We     【小题17】    a spiritual faith, or a philosophy of life. Whatever your philosophy, it should    【小题18】    this truth: if you choose to find the    【小题19】 in every situation, you will be blessed, and if you choose to find the awful, you will be cursed. As with happiness itself, this is    【小题20】    your decision to make.
【小题21】A．differentB．missingC．shortD．broken【小题22】A．nothingB．noneC．allD．anything【小题23】A．determinedB．predictedC．assumedD．imagined【小题24】A．pletelyB．naturallyC．hopefullyD．really【小题25】A．tileB．brickC．ceilingD．house【小题26】A．look onB．focus onC．count onD．decide on【小题27】A．peacefulB．difficultC．easyD．ordinary【小题28】A．certainlyB．merelyC．hardlyD．generally【小题29】A．secretB．factorC．ruleD．key【小题30】A．wealthyB．gratefulC．proudD．generous【小题31】A．upsetB．quarrelC．plainD．depress【小题32】A．admittedB．assumingC．provingD．realizing【小题33】A．sourcesB．resultsC．answersD．goals【小题34】A．amongB．fromC．throughD．for【小题35】A．probableB．possibleC．likelyD．capable【小题36】A．valueB．destinationC．survivalD．existence【小题37】A．needB．lackC．demandD．expect【小题38】A．involveB．includeC．absorbD．mean【小题39】A．worstB．bestC．positiveD．negative【小题40】A．absolutelyB．totallyC．exactlyD．LargelyB