In the face of tragedy，you must of course let yourself feel: Cry without holding back, shake with fear, yell out in anger, accept and follow your feelings. This is part of the wise approach to tragedy: The Upward Path —the feeling of emotions, the acceptance of them, and the coupling of the emotional mind with wisdom. Along this path, you'll take the experience —no matter how sad or upsetting —as a learning event, just as a11 other points on your journey will prove to be. While tragic, you must recognize this is still a chance for all involved to grow. You should let both sadness and joy, fear and courage, dark and light fill your world, and learn to find your steady, calm center in the midst of the opposing forces. This is the Upward Path. Use the event as a chance to gain balance and discover wisdom —the wisdom of love and of letting go, of non-attachment and non-resistance, and using this experience to eventually help others in need of guidance.
Being able to relate to others who have also experienced tragedy and inspire in them hope — of recovery, and of moving forward —is perhaps the greatest gift you can receive from tragedy. Turn the negative into positive, the pain into connection. After you've taken appropriate time to be sad, to feel your own pain, you should make it your work，your goal, your purpose to connect with others who need help. Show them how you've experienced feelings, achieved
balance，and gained wisdom that you would never have otherwise had the chance to learn.
FEEL, but do not FEED on tragedy. Rather, let it inspire you to go beyond the person who you were before. With demise es renewal, so let this loss be also your rebirth. No matter how hopeless it seems, no matter how difficult this bees, you have the power to transform yourself into someone greater than you ever knew you could be.
【小题1】When following the Upward Path, the person facing tragedy should .A．free his emotionsB．hold back his feelingsC．fill his world with positive ideasD．give in to tragedy and all opposing forces【小题2】According to the author，the greatest gift one gets from tragedy is being able to .A．seek solutions from othersB．forgive others and move onC．stay calm and resist changeD．understand and help others【小题3】The purpose of the passage is to .A．analyze the causes of tragedyB．suggest a way of dealing with tragedyC．tell people how to prevent tragedyD．encourage people to build friendship after tragedyA
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解析：文章大意：本文讲述了如何去面对不幸及解决方法。
【小题1】A 细节理解题。根据第一段“While tragic, you must r………balance and discover wisdom — the wisdom of love and of letting go”可知：如果一个人沿着向上的轨迹；那么当他面对悲剧时，就会释放他的情绪，获得心理平衡，发现智慧。故A正确。
【小题2】D 细节理解题。根据第二段中“Being able to relate to others who have also experienced tragedy and inspire in them hope — of recovery, and of moving forward”可知：能与那些经历过不幸的人相处，并鼓励他们去获得希望。故D正确。
【小题3】B 主旨大意题。本文讲述了如何去面对不幸及解决方法；故B正确。