There is an old Chinese proverb that states One Generation plants the trees; another gets the shade, and this is how it should be with mothers and daughters. The relationship between a mother and daughter is sometimes confusing. If close, the relationship can be similar to friendship. However, the mother and daughter relationship has unique characteristics that distinguish it from a friendship. These characteristics include a hierarchy (等级) of responsibility and unconditional love, which preclude mothers and daughters from being best friends.
Marina, 27 years old, says, I love spending time with my mom, but I wouldn't consider her my best friend. Best friends don't pay for your wedding. Best friends don't remind you how they carried you in their body and gave you life! Best friends don't tell you how wise they are because they have been alive at least 20 years longer than you.” This doesn't mean that the mother and daughter relationship can't be very close and satisfying.
While some adult relationships are still troubled, many find them to be extremely rewarding. This generation of mothers and adult daughters has a lot in mon which increases the likelihood of shared panionship. Mothers and daughters have always shared the mon experience of being homemakers, responsible for maintaining and passing on family values and traditions. Today contemporary mothers and daughters also share the experience of the workforce and technology, which may bring them even closer together.
Best friends may or may not continue to be best friends, but for better or worse, the mother and daughter relationship is permanent, even if for some unfortunate reason they aren't speaking. The mother and child relationship is closer than any other. There is not an equal relationship. Daughters should not feel responsible for their mother's emotional well-being. It isn’t that they don't care deeply about their mothers. It's just that they shouldn't be burdened with their mother's well being.
The mother and daughter relationship is a relationship that is not replaceable by any other. Mothers never stop being mothers, which includes frequently wanting to protect their daughters and often feeling responsible for their happiness. Mother always trumps friend.
【小题1】The underlined word “preclude” in Paragraph 1 probably means “ ”.A．differB．preventC．benefitD．change【小题2】Why do many mothers and adult daughters keep a rewarding relationship?A．Because they have a lot in mon.B．Because they have mon family values.C．Because they have no generation gap.D．Because they keep a constant relationship.【小题3】What do we know from the passage?A．The mother and daughter relationship can be replaced by a best friend.B．A mother’s love brings her and her daughter a close friendship.C．The mother and daughter relationship goes beyond best friends’ friendship.D．Marina has a troubled relationship with her mother.【小题4】The author proves his statements mainly by .A．listing dataB．giving explanationsC．quoting sayingsD．making examples【小题5】What is the best title for the passage?A．How to be a good mother and daughterB．Who is a mother’s best friend?C．A friend in need is a friend indeed.D．Can a mother be a daughter’s best friend?B
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(答案→)B
解析：
本文论述了“母女关系”，认为母女关系独具特点，不同于友谊，母亲与女儿不可能成为最好的朋友。作者认为，母女之间有许多共同之处，但是，友谊可能不再，母女关系永存、不可替代。友谊是双向的，但是母亲永远希望保护女儿、为女儿负责，女儿却不必为母亲的幸福承担责任。
【小题1】词义推断题。母亲对女儿负有各种层次大小不等的责任和无条件的爱（a hierarchy of responsibility and unconditional love）。母女之间责任义务常常是单向的，不可能像朋友关系那样是双向的。这使她们不可能成为朋友。preclude后面的from提示其含义应为prevent. 故B项正确。
【小题2】细节题。第三段…many find them to be extremely rewarding. This generation of mothers and adult daughters has a lot in mon which increases the likelihood of shared panionship.说明母女之间的共同之处有助于增强相互关系的可能性，因而这是一种rewarding adult relationship. 故答案为A。
【小题3】主旨大意题。纵观全文可知，本文论证的是母女关系不同于朋友关系但超越朋友关系。A，B两项与文章主旨不符，D项与第二段I love spending time with my mom 一句不符。故C项正确。
【小题4】主旨大意题。问的是“论证方法”。本文采用的是“说理”的方法。故B项正确。A项“列数据”；C项“引名言”；D项“举实例”。
【小题5】主旨大意题。全文论述的是母女不可能像最好的朋友。故D项正确。