Friendship continues to remain central to our lives. Friends often affect our health and energy. More and more people are increasingly turning towards their friends for support and sharing rather than just municating with their relatives. We may have a very unclear understanding of what makes a friend but we all want to have a good number of friends around us. There are certain things you do to help you make friends or at least help you get close to people whom you want to make friends with.
The first step to make friends with people is to make them like you. If they don’t like you in the first place, it is unlikely that they’ll be eager to bee your friends. To let someone know that you are interested in him, simple gestures like a little smile and calling him by his name can help. To make the other person feel important, you need to be a good listener and to encourage him to talk. Give your honest and sincere opinion, but do not make fun of him.
The second step is to develop trust in each other. You need to share opinions with this person and it is necessary for you to develop a habit of seeing things from his point of view. To bee the best of friends, you must show concern and consideration for your friends’ desires and opinions.
The third and final step is to show your support and encouragement towards your friend. Moreover, you also need to be very clear about your expectations from your friend. If what you expect from the person you want to be a friend matches with what that person can and wants to do in friendship, the developing friendship between you and your friend is sure to be easy and successful.
【小题1】What can we learn about friends and friendship?A．Friendship is not important in our life. B．Friends have nothing to do with our health and energy.C．Friends can provide us with support.D．Relatives can not bee friends.【小题2】Which is the right order of making friends according to the writer?
① When you meet some problems, you ask him for help.
② When he is in trouble, you tell him your ideas.
③ You smile at him to let him know you like him.A．②①③B．①②③ C．③①②D．③②①【小题3】We can infer from the passage that .A．you can’t call your friend by his nameB．friends should understand each otherC．there should be no secret between friendsD．friends don’t need support and encouragement【小题4】What is the main purpose of the writer?A．To tell us about the importance of making friends.B．To tell us about the advantages and disadvantages of friendship.C．To introduce the steps for making friends.D．To tell us that friends are hard to make.【小题5】What’s the meaning of the underlined word gestures?A．身势语B．客人C．猜测D．表演C
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(答案→)C
解析：文章主要向我们讲述了友谊的重要性，以及如何与别人交朋友。
【小题1】C 细节题。根据文章第二句. More and more people are increasingly turning towards their friends for support说明朋友可以给你支持，所以很多人才向朋友求助。故C正确。
【小题2】D 排序题。根据文章2,3,4三段知道顺序：首先让别人知道你喜欢他。然后培养相互信任，最后取得支持。说明D的顺序是正确的。
【小题3】B 推断题。根据文章倒数第二段you must show concern and consideration for your friends’ desires and opinions.说明朋友之间要相互理解，相互支持，故B正确。
【小题4】C 主旨大意题。从2,3,4三段说明文章主要讲述的是交朋友的步骤。
【小题5】A 猜测词义题。根据横线后的like a little smile and calling him by his name can help微笑之类的都属于身势和姿势语，故A正确。